Unique thing in common
With a partner find the 3 most unlikely / weird / surprising things you have in common with each other
Each pair chooses one to share with the group

Goal
build connection & trust
get to know someone
Instructions
Choose someone you don't know that well.
With your partner find the 3 most unlikely / weird / dramatic things you have in common.
Instruct to find many things and then keep deciding which ones are the most interesting. Choosing things you like, have done, hobbies, pet peeves, quirks, etc. This will help people avoid obvious visible things (both have curly hair). The goal is to come up with the most surprising things.
This exercise can help smart & introverted types overcome the reluctance to engage because it taps into a bit of competitive spirit (to find the weirdest thing)
After everyone does this, ask each pair to choose one to share with the group (they don't need to share them all). Give them time to select which one they want to share.
Variation
* Do same exercise in a larger group (have pairs find another set of pairs or in groups of 3)
* In small groups list things in common and things that only one person has in the group (I have not tried this one) -- See https://www.sessionlab.com/methods/common-and-unique
Author
I lead a team that helps multi-stakeholder groups tackle high-stakes, complex work with clarity and connection. We design and guide strategic planning sessions, workshops, retreats, and conferences where people think well together, make sound decisions, and take coordinated action. Our team is trained in improvisational theater, and as active members of the International Applied Improvisation Network, we bring adaptable, creative methods that build trust, surface essential perspectives, and keep momentum strong. We also share what we know, offering facilitator training that blends inclusive process design with the flexibility and presence of improv.
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