Erica Marx

Yes, and Picnic

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4 conversations about how to listen, acknowledge, and build

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Goal

awareness of default conversation patterns,
block vs. accept
no vs. yes, but
yes, and w/ and w/out connection

appreciate impact of listening and co-creation

Materials

    Instructions

    Participants will be in pairs and have 4 short conversations planning an imaginary event together. To start, each pair chooses an event to plan (birthday party, road trip, etc.). 

    1. No...
    2. Yes, but...  
    3. Yes, and... (back & forth)
    4. Yes, and what I like about that is ... and ... (back and forth)


    For each conversation, one person enthusiastically wants to do the activity, the others respond as instructed. Demo each conversation separately encouraging participants to forget the previous conversation. 

    For conversations 1 and 2, switch roles for conversations so each person has the experience of what it is to repeated encounter a "No" and a "Yes, but" response. This will help them see the impact of these responses in isolation, as well as reveal the other person's default response to encountering this type of response. For conversations 3 & 4 both people play the same role and go back and forth.


    Facilitator Notes

    This activity works well in-person and online. 

    You can do this activity in 3's by assigning 2 people to the response role. 



    Background

    This activity is a variation on the classic improv principle of "Yes, and." I learned this specific series of prompts from members of The Applied Improvisation Network. 


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