Disagree Without Debating
Time depends on the number of statements covered. This activity can be extended or shortened as needed. Any time for this activity must include time for introducing the activity, explaining the rules, aligning participants on the spectrum, allowing each participant to share their stories and perspectives, facilitating respectful discussion, and concluding the activity with reflection.
Goal
Disagree Without Debating is an engaging activity designed to foster open-mindedness and respectful dialogue among participants. Participants will align themselves on a spectrum based on their level of agreement or disagreement with given statements. They will take turns sharing their stories and perspectives without trying to change each other's minds. The aim is to listen and understand each other's viewpoints, thereby gaining empathy for one another.
Materials
Instructions
Introduce the activity and its purpose to participants
Explain that participants will be aligning themselves on a spectrum according to their agreement or disagreement with each statement. The closer they are to one end of the spectrum, the more firmly they agree/disagree with the statement. Remind them that it is NOT an all or nothing situation. They may agree or disagree to some extent.
Share the first statement, using something simple and fun, such as "Cats are better than dogs," and ask participants to position themselves on the spectrum accordingly.
Allow participants to share their stories and experiences that have influenced their stance on the statement, using "I" statements.
Encourage active listening without responding directly to others' narratives.
Repeat steps 3-5 for each subsequent statement, progressively moving from simple to more complex or challenging statements.
Emphasize that the goal is to understand different perspectives, not engage in debates or convince others.
Facilitate a respectful and inclusive discussion, ensuring participants follow the rules and guidelines.
Conclude the activity by reflecting on the experience and the insights gained.
Thank participants for their participation.
Background
Preparation
Prepare a list of statements (simple to challenging) to use during the activity. Consider statements that would be relevant to the learners. A list of examples is provided at the end.
Set up a space for participants to physically align themselves on a spectrum or utilize virtual platforms like Miro to create a visual representation of the spectrum.
Technology Considerations
For virtual cohorts, a virtual meeting space tool (like Zoom, or Google Meet) is required.
Use a virtual collaboration tool like Miro to create a visual spectrum for alignment.
A template can be found in the SEW team miro account.
See Appendix A for a visual example and instructions.
Provide clear instructions on how to use the virtual tools and engage in the activity effectively.
Ensure a stable internet connection and familiarize yourself with the chosen virtual platform before the session.
Additional Context
As the facilitator, outline the expectations to maintain a safe space
Provide positive feedback
One voice at a time
Active listening and understanding of different perspectives
Zero judgment
Use "I" statements and speak from their own perspective.
Adjust the activity length and statements based on the available time and the dynamics of your group.
NOTE: Interrupt participants if they respond or speak about others.
Tips for Localization
By localizing an activity, instructors can bridge the gap between the content and the participants' backgrounds, allowing them to engage more authentically and contribute their own experiences.
For this activity, utilizing statements that draw from participants' own experiences in terms of their geographical communities, their cultural communities or their communities of identity and interest are a few ways to localize. From groups that share the same geographical space, consider whether there are any local issues or current events taking place that participants may relate to and offer differing perspectives.
Encourage participants to share personal stories and experiences that highlight their unique identities, challenges, or triumphs. This can promote empathy and create a supportive environment for individuals to feel seen and heard.
Remember, the goal of localization is to create an inclusive and engaging environment where participants feel connected to the activity and can express their perspectives authentically.
Debrief Questions
How did this activity impact your understanding of differing perspectives? Did it challenge any preconceived notions you held?
Did you find it difficult to listen without responding or engaging in debates? How did you manage to maintain an open mind during the activity?
How could you use this skill going forward? (Draw out discussion around receiving criticism or feedback that is difficult to hear).
Share an example of a story or perspective that stood out to you during the activity. How did hearing this story contribute to your overall understanding of the topic? Of the person?
Reflect on the use of "I" statements in this activity. Did using this language help create a safe and respectful space for sharing perspectives?
How can you apply the skills of empathy, active listening, and understanding different perspectives from this activity to your everyday interactions and conversations outside of this session?
How are these skills (empathy, active listening, understanding different perspectives) important for design thinking?
Appendix A: List of Example Statements
Keep in mind that not all questions are suitable for all groups, and you should decide in advance, based on your knowledge of the group, which statements to include.
Cats are better than dogs
Coffee is better than tea
Snow is better than rain
Superman is the strongest superhero of all time
I would rather go on a vacation to the beach than go on a vacation to a city
Family is more important than friendship
Video games lead to increased violence in real life
People work better if they are paid more
The voting age should be reduced to 16
Advertising to children should be banned
If you have more money, you’ll be happier
Everyone should receive a basic income
Social media is a force for positive change in society
Businesses can succeed without social media in today’s world
Climate change is the most pressing issue of our time
Artificial intelligence will have a net positive impact on humanity
Online dating is an effective way to find meaningful relationships
Technology is making us more isolated and less connected
Animal testing is necessary for scientific advancement
Access to quality education, including post-secondary, is a basic human right
Renewable energy sources should completely replace fossil fuels
Cultural teachings should be reserved only for Indigenous communities
Appendix A: Miro Board Sample
With this sample, each learner chooses an “avatar” by selecting one of the figures provided. They place a copy of their “avatar” beside the sticky note with their name on it, so everyone is aware who is who, and then also have an avatar to move around during the activity.
The facilitator then reads each statement out loud, and learners place their avatar along the line from agree to disagree. The facilitator can use the avatars as a way to engage the learners in discussion about their positions. For example “I see the grumpy cat is really far on the disagree side. Can you share what made you position yourself there?”.
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